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By: john muir
http://harvestofdailylife.com/what-can-you-do-about-an-emotionally-draining-person/#comment-1057
Sun, 17 May 2015 15:51:46 +0000http://www.harvestofdailylife.com/?p=645#comment-1057thanks i needed them stories i had that with a relative.poor me dramas..i was told not to phone but found it hard so i went about it in a different way sent her a letterto her that she was advertising work she found out it was my handwriting called the police i went down to the police station handed my self in…hour and a half later told to go away..unothodox but it worked…4 weeks later i feel coming back to my old self???
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By: Anne
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Tue, 11 Nov 2014 10:34:02 +0000http://www.harvestofdailylife.com/?p=645#comment-1056I have a childhood friend like this whom I recently got back in touch with, I was so thrilled, still love and care for her, but omg, she is a total mess, always in a crisis, never wants to talk unless it’s 2 am in the morning and she’s drunk fueled on pot and alcohol to unload on me, and lectures, lectures, because her kids and husband ignore her, I am done being a dumping ground for this mess.She never wants to meet for lunch, dinner, or anything. Just dump on me, but that’s over with. Her problems are worse than anyone according to her, she’s accomplished more than anyone in the past, it’s always someone else’s fault, her grown children are a mess except for one. And I am done done. Her voice would ring in my ear after the calls were over and my anxiety levels would be at an all time high after hours of listening to her, being interrupted, being talked over. It’s been so peaceful the past week, letting her late night calls go to voicemail and her texts responded to with excuses.
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By: KristyCoombs
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Tue, 13 Dec 2011 17:53:34 +0000http://www.harvestofdailylife.com/?p=645#comment-1055In reply to Sally.
I understand your feeling! I ask myself the same thing. I can’t just give up on the relationship although I know that is what needs to happen to make me happy!
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By: Sally
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Mon, 06 Jun 2011 09:45:39 +0000http://www.harvestofdailylife.com/?p=645#comment-1054My mother JUST drained me.. i am sufering withe issue of not having a baby and she would say how much i need to pray more, how she feels jelous for other peoples daughters when they get babies and she almost killed me. i left the house with my husband and feel much better. why did i ever go to her place after all these years. why? why?
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By: ican'tbreathe
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Sat, 14 May 2011 14:45:29 +0000http://www.harvestofdailylife.com/?p=645#comment-1053I can’t breathe when my mother is near me. She literally sucks up all of my energy with her constant neediess. Family illnesses (older brother) can bring out so many things in families that were just under the surface. My mother has always been somewhat emotionally abusive to me. I was never able to have my own feelings, I was never good enough, I could always do better, strong need to be perfect, feeling responsible for her mood/emotions, invalidating me by telling me that I exaggerate or that I am not feeling a certain way. I have NEVER felt like I can be me in front of her. She has no idea who I am as a person. She is too caught up in telling me what I should be doing, how it should be done, how I should treat others, how I should feel and show my feelings. I am always in survival mode, walking on eggshells and avoiding rocking the boat at any cost. Now that my brother is sick she is constantly looking for me to fulfill her emotional needs. She is the neediest and most pathetic person I know. She has a toxic personality and is a negative person who has drained me of any emotion I might have had. I feel horrible for my brother and I want to be compassionate towards him but my mother has forced him down my throat. Did you call him, what did he say, did you go over there, what are you doing for him?????? Like somehow I am responsible for the situation or I have some way to change it. I have my own business and a family of my own. I call and talk to him everyday and while I am not able to be there all the time, I try to be there emotionally. Lately it has been difficult to do that however, b/c she has drained me of my emotions.
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