Start living life for yourself!!!
I guess it is just that some people have gone so long without listening to their hearts and they honestly do not know what would truly make them happy anymore. It is sad that some people get that lost in life but I guess if that is the way they choose to live that is their purgative. It’s just so hard to watch especially when those people are obviously lost and unhappy. Some people are just more comfortable that way and comfort is safer than change.
I’ll admit I do feel judged and hurt by those who see me “following my heart” as a sin or whatever… It truly does hurt and friendships may be lost but there is nothing I can do to change others. I accept that.
However, I firmly believe in being accepting and honest with myself so I will continue to do what I feel is best for me. I have come to terms with the fact that other people are going to be the way they are regardless of what I think, so I am just accepting that and I am just going to worry about what I can control, myself.